Paranoia and doubt are the small cracks in any foundation that can potentially cut your forever short. This is why trust between two people is the secret to a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, sometimes third parties for some reason just don’t understand that they are not welcome. There are people who will try anything to get what they want. Luckily, we know five signs that will help you spot the ones you need to steer clear from!
Taking full advantage of their assets
What’s wrong with showing some skin? If you are young and fit, go ahead and be proud. But when you purposely use your curves as a tool to catch someone’s attention, that is crossing the line. Playing with your hair while talking to someone is practically the universal language of flirting. Having a tattoo is a big bonus too! You can avoid this, however, by making sure to not let your eyes stray.
Using their talents in acting
Nothing feeds the ego of a man more than being the knight in shining armor. So, playing the damsel in distress can be a surefire way of getting you to focus on them. Taking care of someone can be very intimate. How can you opt out of helping without being heartless? Try to look for another person else you who can take your place. If it is just the two of you and you have no choice, assist them until others come along and then leave as soon as possible.
Pointing out all your similarities
Opposites attract but similarities last. It a classic move for someone to continuously enforce the impression that you both just have so much in common. The goal of this is to give you an idea of how perfect your pairing would be. Process all information with a grain of salt. People will only show certain sides, depending on who the audience is.
Asking for a shoulder to cry on
A broken heart can be very persuasive. Many have acted out because of a heartbreak. This includes being desperate enough to steal someone else’s other half. Avoid this simply by not offering your shoulder. Someone will only try this strategy if they are confident that you will sympathize with them. In which case, try to be as distant as possible.
Being on your side
All anyone ever wants is to be understood and to be supported. So, being on someone’s side is probably the quickest way to win over their hearts. It is a way of showing that they are with you whatever happens. This will be enticing to hear. At this point, the only way to shut the other person down is by keeping in mind that your heart belongs to someone else. It is the true test of faith.
At the end of the day, we can’t stop every person who tries to make a move on our significant other. What we can do is simply trust that our partners will remain loyal. Although, it does not hurt to show them this video and enlighten them on some people’s tactics.