As exciting as it is to fall in love, finding the one is a process of trial and error. There will be challenges along the way. You will make mistakes. And some relationships will end in heartbreak. But if experience really is the best teacher, then what better way is there to understand love? So, for this exclusive video, Pamilya Ko stars Kid Yambao and Heaven Peralejo revealed the three things that love has taught them.
Trust is key in every relationship, especially in the beginning. “Ayun dapat unang ibigay mo kasi once na hindi mo nabigay ‘yun agad paano na ‘yung susunod n’yong relasyon,” Kid explained. This is also necessary in forgiveness. When there is faith between two people, you can overcome any problem, just like Fernan (Joey Marquez) and Luz (Sylvia Sanchez) in Pamilya Ko.
Aside from trust, Heaven believes that a relationship also requires hard work. It is not enough to just say that you love someone. You have to constantly show that person how you feel. “Lagi mo siyang suyuin,” Kid added. Even when you and your partner have been together for years, you should never lose the spark. “Kailangan parang everyday mo pa rin siyang nililigawan. Hindi dapat sa umpisa ka lang magaling,” he continued.
At the end of the day, however, Heaven knows that self-love is still the most important thing. This will build a healthy relationship as well as protect your heart in case things do not work out. “’Wag mo ibuhos lahat,” Kid advised. Save some love for yourself, otherwise you might experience the same heartbreak that Peachy (Maris Racal) is going through.