Being in the friend zone is one of the worst situations we would want in a relationship. It's best to know whether you're dealing with an unrequited love before making a big move.
And so we asked Jairus and Sharlene for 5 signs on how to know if you are in the friend zone and here’s what they’ve shared
1. Kapag ikaw ang unang nagtext tapos isang sentence lang ang sagot niya. One-word or one-sentence replies could be a sign that it’s time to accept na “hindi siya interesado sa’yo”.
2. Kapag sweet siya sa lahat
“Kailangan mo mag-observe kung sa’yo lang ba siya sweet”, Sharlene said. Most people are just naturally nice and sweet to everyone so it’s best not to assume there’s something special going on between the two of you. 3. Kapag matagal mag-reply o walang interes mag-reply
Some girls really tend to send late responses as mentioned by Sharlene. One of her friends gave her an advice on how to send replies to boys. “Kung 5 minutes siya nag-reply, dapat ikaw 10 minutes," Sharlene said.
4. Kapag gawa ka nang gawa ng conversation pero pilit niyang pinapatay
When he/she shows his/her lack of interest to make meaningful conversations with you, maybe it clearly shows that your feelings are not mutual.
5. Kapag magkasama kayo, malalaman mo ‘pag may something ‘yung akbay niya o barkada lang talaga kayo
Putting his arms over your shoulders doesn’t mean he’s already into you. Watch Jailene’s demonstration on how to know if the “akbay” has a special meaning.